A curious look at the harder parts of being human

Essays on emotional growth, relationships, repair, grief, identity, and the complicated work of being human.

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When No One Wants to Hear You: On Ego, Growth, and Parenting Teenagers Through the Hard Years

Why don't people want to hear the truth? Often, it's not about the truth at all. It's about the ego — theirs, ours, and everything we're both protecting. A reflection on what gets in the way of being truly known, and what it costs us when we stop trying.

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When Your Teen Won’t Talk to You and How Therapy Can Help

When your teen shuts down or pulls away, it can be painful — but it may also be part of their healthy development. Psychotherapy can serve as a bridge for teens to find their voice and help parents navigate this stage with compassion, understanding, and a renewed connection.