A curious look at the harder parts of being human
Essays on emotional growth, relationships, repair, grief,
identity, and the complicated work of being human.
Why "You Suck Right Now" Isn't the Whole Story
There's a moment most of us know: someone we love does the thing again, and something in us goes flat and certain — you suck right now. Underneath that verdict is usually something quieter: an unmet need we haven't said out loud. Here's how to move from reactive blame to what's actually true.
Real Love is Endurance
Real love often asks for more than just passion or chemistry—it asks for endurance. Love will ask more of you than you expect. It will challenge your patterns, expose your wounds, and confront the ways you both hold on and pull away. The question isn’t just whether love will last—but whether you can stay present enough to grow within it.
Why Real Relationships Require Repair
Conflict and rupture are not signs of failure—they are bumps on the road to real relating. When someone hurts us, or when we misunderstand one another,
The Art of Attunement & How It Heals
Attunement—the experience of being truly seen and understood—is at the heart of healing. In therapy, it creates safety, fosters self-awareness, and helps repair early attachment wounds.
Consciousness and Capitalism
Self-awareness isn’t just about personal growth; it promotes a more compassionate society. By tending to our inner world, we contribute to a healthier, more equitable environment, reminding ourselves that every small act of introspection can have a larger impact on the collective world.